what a day

So these past few days have been kind of stressful and i feel like I'm going crazy. My son just turned 3 a few weeks ago and i think that the threes are worse than the twos. He has been clinging to his daddy now and i don't know how I'm going to handle him while daddy is gone I'm going to try to get him involved in as much as possible but there is not many things for a three year old to get involved in. I wish that i could find a job i like being a stay at home mom but we really need the money and it is not easy to find a job in this economy and defiantly not easy to find a job in San Diego.

i often sit a wonder if I'm ever going to find a job because it seems like you have to have experience every where and that no one will hire so that you can get the experience that you need which is kind of dumb if you ask me. i think that they only want the people that have all the experience so that they don't have to do there job and train some one new. i would love to have a job in the medical Field or maybe even doing journalism i took them both in high school and i love them both. I am taking classes in medical billing and coding but i don't seem to be getting any where with that and it just not for me but i will need it anyway to go for medical assisting so I'm going to go ahead and finish. i took two years of journalism and loved it i had so much fun.

So in the end i gusse that it all comes down to me just being tired of staying in the house all the time. Don't get me wrong i love being a stay at home mom but with us only having one car its not like we can get out of the house and do some thing because my husband has the car while he is at work. Yes we go out in the back yard and play with the dogs or play ball or we go to the park or go for a walk but its not the same as getting in the car and just getting away from the house.

well i gusse that is enough about me for today or maybe something else will happen and i will wirte more later you never know.

Just another day

Today is one of those days where i don't feel like doing anything and i have a ton of house work that needs to be done. I think I'm just still tried from the weekend we had our sons 3rd birthday party this weekend and everything that had to be done for the party just wore me out.

I cant believe that our deployment time is coming up so fast and im not ready for my husband to be gone again i miss having him with me all the time and i gusse this is why for the past couple of weeks i have had these days where i have no energy to get the house clean or even to do anything. I know that i need to get it togeather and get ready for this deployment but im just not ready. Is anyone ever ready for deployment time when it gets here i know that i never am.

I think it is time for me to find some thing to blog about how to prepare for a deployment since that time is coming so if you have any ideas let me know.

So I havent been on here in a while...

Sorry that i haven't been on here to post in a while my life as a young navy wife in San Diego has been a little crazy. I really wish that my husband wasn't gone so much since he is leaving for a six and a half month deployment in November which sucks because i don't know what I'm going to do I'm going to go crazy lol. Right now I'm trying to finish up my school and then i want to get my certificate for medical assisting because i really hate medical billing and coding it is really gay and so not for me. So right now in my life as a navy wife I'm waiting for my husband to come home and baby sitting for another navy wife which makes this time go by so much faster and it is so nice to have money that i don't have to spend on anything but something that i want. But i gusse it is time for me to go for now.

My new faveorite book

When my husband left for deployment i decided that while i was home with family i had to find something to keep me busy...so while we were in San Diego, CA getting everything moved into our new house i went to the bookstore and bought some more books because i have done read the twilight books like 3 times so i wanted something new. When i started to read them none of them seemed to help me pass the time buy so i got online and started looking for books about being a military wife and i found chicken soup for the military wifes soul and i have fell in love with it. this is our first time being apart since he was in basic training and a-school so it was really hard for me when i had to drop him off at the air port in San Diego to fly back to Norfolk to get on the ship. This book helps me know that im not the only one that has to go through this even though i know that im not the only one because i have alot of friends that have married into the military and are going through the same thing right now and there deployment times are a lot longer than what ours are. There are many great stories in this book and im so glad that i found it to help me survive our first deployment:)

MY Life as a navy wife

Hello my name is Brooke...im 20 years old and yes i am a navy wife. I have been a navy wife for a little over a year now. I graduated from high school in june 2008. Me and my husband dated all through high school we started dating in august of 2006 and in 2007 we found out that i was pregnant with our son that is now 2 and 1/2. Our son was 10 months old when my husband left for basic training. it was hard knowing that my husband was going to miss our sons first birthday and we weren't married when he left and that bothered me alot i kept thinking what if he leaves and doesnt want to come back to me and our son but after he had been in basic training for about two weeks i got a letter from him saying that he wanted to get married when he came home for chirstmas so when he got his leave to come home i drove form kentucky to great lakes to pick him up and we got married on december 23rd 2008...so now im living my life as a navy wife and we are loving it we have already been stationed in norfolk viriginia and now we have moved to san diego california. he is currently on deployment and i miss him so much and will be so glad when he gets back.